Be yourself and live happily ever after 😊

To be thyself and contented is the ultimate way to empower yourself. More often we lose our true persona to impress someone, being submissive, be at the center stage/hungry for attention or trying hard to win hearts of folk surrounding you. Well, doing none or rather all of it is not a mistake, since those are the perks of  having a compassionate heart. In the long term, when people whom you once thanked God, felt blessed for having them in your life fail to deliver feelings, emotions the way you expected could breed big disappointments and heart breaks. 

If friends or people can accept the imperfect side of you, then the burden of forcing yourself to hide and appear socially strong, socially competitive, socially acceptable can be get rid of. No human is flawless, and so do their feelings, emotions, and actions toward others. 

Moreover, when someone is expressing an emotion such as happiness, anger or sadness etc. it is lot more to do with their state of mind than about you. During those times, you are just the receiver of the screenshot of their mind and have to deal with it. Also, make an attempt to figure out the underlying reasons from the same person instead of taking things personally, including any foreseen complications.   

In addition, books and philosophers say you need a lifetime to know the kind of person you are, perhaps its true either we are in need of more experiences or incrementally along this journey hear from someone else mostly because, several of our good or bad qualities appear blind sighted to ourselves. 

To be yourself is the biggest decision, greatest accomplishment that you can make for your life today and not get lost in the ocean of waves by adjusting your appearance or attitude to be more like someone else. This results in happiness and keeps you alive all the time, no matter who's watching you.  

We all know the truth already, nonetheless we find it hard to accept it. We should live our life like a flower that blooms even when its unseen, besides it's still sprout beautifully and smells just as pleasant. In the end, world remembers those people, who were true to themselves and lived a happy life.

Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it. - Bruce Lee