Let your heart melt for the right person 💕
When the right person steps into your life, unknowingly in due course of time your heart starts to melt. Do you know why ? Because, you start to admire and feel proud for every little things about him/her.
Love is a special feeling that you experience when that one person in the whole world treats you special, cares you unconditionally, accepts your imperfection with open arms, stands by you in both happy and sad moments, challenges you to be the best, congratulates, supports you like no else, makes you smile, laugh and a bit of cry too.
Unknowingly, as we gradually grow up and go through all kinds of emotions, and learning phases, at some point in your journey you internally feel the wish/desire of having someone next to you for the rest of your life to share your highs and lows. Some of them may find it early and others a bit late, however just like the saying goes matches are already made in heaven, when its meant to happen it will, it's just a matter of time. Of course, when you meet that potential person, one of you has to be brave enough to make the bold move.
Moreover, only a strong connection is built between the two hearts over a period of time in a relationship and that is achievable when both of them put their vulnerabilities on the table. In this way, a deep connection and trust is forged which is the primary foundation of a relationship. If that one special person can make you experience like you are his/her world, listen to your heart he/she is the ONE. Other significant factors that strengthen the bonding are communication, sharing of responsibility, being vocal about how you feel, not taking him/her for granted, respect for each other, healthy arguments, reciprocity, and open discussions.
In addition, research on mental health of people in relationships shows positive when both invest, receive the same amount of love, care in a relationship. Then, being around this person feels safe, comfortable, and you don't have to prove yourself like how you prove to the world and society or look out for reasons why you love this one single person day in and day out. Also, admiring them for who they are, instills a sense of confidence in that person and an opportunity to learn a lot of things to better yourself.
Although, different people express love in different ways, in fact define differently too, nevertheless the end feeling conveys the same. When your cup of self love is full, then you automatically attract the desired person in your life and begin to share with him/her before it gets distributed to other places. Until you internally feel that you have enough amount of love to be shared with someone, continue to work on yourself to be a better person everyday, believe me that day is never far from you.
In conclusion, reserve your heart for that one right person who means everything to you heart and soul. Most importantly, love and to be loved, to forgive and to be forgiven, and consciously care for right things in your life.
"There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life." - John Lennon
